Tag: Семья
У каждого плана свой жизненный смысл. Мир ума ведет расчет, здесь четкая бухгалтерия. Доход превыше всего и любым путем. Мир души взирает на все это с грустью и сожалением. Понимание мелочности и мельтешения в действиях других, нежелание принимать участие в этой процедуре не является протестом или осуждением, но становится необходимостью в раскрытии, изучении этого мира и развития способности жить в новых условиях реальности.Вы не можете жить придуманной другими любовью. Это их представление о ней. И законы созданы в соответствии с изобретенным ими образом. Это придумано людьми. Это работа ума.
Ваша душа знает, что есть другое пространство любви, оно не воображаемое, оно реальное. И не…
Быть благодарной – великий дар. Необходимо только правильно распознать саму благодарность. Тот свершившийся с вами когда-то факт, важен, но не столько, чтобы будоражить прошлое, давая ему какие либо характеристики. Они не имеют существенного значения. Важно то, что последовало, за теми действиями, которые вы совершили. Вы чувствуете и считаете, что стали мудрее и терпимее, – прекрасно. И это повлекло за собой пользу и другим. Вы этого хотели, вам этого не хватало. Трепетное отношение к полученным переживаниям понятно. Но идите дальше. Жизнь не требует остановки. Остановка, зацикливание на желании получать все те же приятные ощущения от общения с другом по Интернету, могут создать свои пом…
Люди всегда в трудную минуту стараются найти себе всякого рода оправдания. В своих сомнениях уповают на Господа.
Да. Он любит всех. И нет у Него выбора. Выбор делают люди между Ним и себе подобными. И всему этому есть объяснения.
Мир людей заманчив своими возможностями. Даже боги из рая приходят в этот мир для осуществления своей эволюции.
Перед нами в жизни встает много испытаний. Но чаще всего люди, проявляя слабость перед ними, стараются интерпретировать их в свою пользу, так как им хочется видеть исход ситуации, оправдать свои поступки. И здесь я мало, чем могу помочь, потому что учу тому, как не быть занятым собой.
В семье трое маленьких детей, но чужое счастье всегда яв…
QUESTION Tayana, help me, please! I do not know how to begin… I with my husband have been living for 15 years. We lived friendly and cheerfully. We worked together, brought up children together. We were almost as a single whole. And now a strange period began which is expressed with the fact that I lost interest to my husband as the sexual partner. In former years it was not also at the first place for me, it was just as a part of our joint life. And now I do it hardly. The most thing, that I hurt close person because he loves me. But sexual life is that area where to force yourself to do something is practically impossible. The most important is that in other spheres of our life – work, e…
QUESTION What should I do? To divorced from husband or not? I was bothered with his projects.
ANSWER OF TAYANA Do something, and having made action, be able to answer for it. The problem is not in someone another you are the problem. In any case there won’t be any special changes in the life of your husband. He is the child his time. And this time supports design activity. Even modern progressive representatives of an education system try to pay all possible attention to this theme.
That’s why he has an aspiration to development of abilities in the given direction. His position does not allow him to study education on the basis of any establishment; he tries to save time and uses opp…
QUESTION I do not know what to do: to divorce from wife or not? Last time this question does not allow me to sleep. I don’t like her. Parents chose her. It frequent happens in such a way. The girl I liked, they did not accept. They thought that they are descendants of prince Welsh (I speak figuratively). And here I am at the crossroads. I do not like her, but I feel sorry for her. I fork; I do not know what to do. I do not want to be the victim. And I have problems with work, and I search and I search for new work. I put the questionnaire here and there, but nobody answers. Help me, please. Tell me what to do?
ANSWER OF TAYANA You want new experiences and problems than make divorce. At leas…
QUESTION My loved person has not decided to live together. Does distance, doubts or still something prevent him from doing it? What to do, whether it is necessary to show the initiative?
ANSWER OF TAYANA How is to decide to live together? It is already a joint life independently of, whether you are in marriage, whether sleep at night in one bed, whether you together have the immovable property, and so on.
Probably, your loved has his plans for this account. Talk to him. This concrete conversation can appear the beginning or the end of your relations.
Who should show the initiative? Probably, you as you are disturbed with this question.
Your friend can test doubt, fear. It is qu…
QUESTION And what about “gay” families? Love is the main thing, isn’t it? I want to make it clear and can’t find the answer anywhere. I believe that all the religions are based on love!
ANSWER OF TAYANA Everybody born into this world seeks for home, harmony with the world and with himself, etc.
It is difficult to speak on love in theoretical sense, you have no own experience in this sphere! At every stage of the development of consciousness man passes through definite stages of love.
The family is a form of the organization of joint life, which man uses first of all to limit the freedom of the other man’s actions, thoughts, development. But it can be quite the reverse. Of course,…
QUESTION Tell me please, what should I start with, if my soul is not quiet because of my husband’s infidelity. I am on the point of weeping and I do not know how to stop it. I began read esoteric literature, but everything is chaotic, I don’t know how to approach it. I am feeling breaches in my soul, destruction, devastation. I want to achieve balance, not to grow buffer, make myself forgive him, to get rid of offence. But how can I live without his love?
ANSWER OF TAYANA Your question is the result of deep emotional and feeling experience. Esoteric literature can’t help you in this case because the information you get has a lot of dimensions and systems. Your consciousness is not ready to …
QUESTION What is the family?
ANSWER OF TAYANA The family is a whole organization of human relations, it can gain different forms. The quality of forms will depend on the representation, on the constituent parts that will inhabit this country. That is why the problems are so different depending on their solutions.
The both parts bust bear responsibility for family relations. And as the family is a living being, its evolutional process is unavoidable.
As any form of organization, the family has own laws and rules of existence. They are different for men and women. Nowadays the reason for many troubles in family is woman. It is she who the result of family relations depend on.
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