I want to divorce

ANSWER OF TAYANA Do something, and having made action, be able to answer for it. The problem is not in someone another you are the problem. In any case there won’t be any special changes in the life of your husband. He is the child his time. And this time supports design activity. Even modern progressive representatives of an education system try to pay all possible attention to this theme.

That’s why he has an aspiration to development of abilities in the given direction. His position does not allow him to study education on the basis of any establishment; he tries to save time and uses opportunities of self-education. He is a subject of the educational activity and simultaneously the subject of its management. It is some kind of creativity.

The person is allocated with the ability to think. The thinking person devotes all life to study. And it does not depend on the age qualification. In this case he tries to find and master various ways of the decision of vital problems which are especially important for him. Some problems he puts before himself, some problems you put (that is not so interesting for him). It can happen that the problem will not have the decision because of absence of the question, necessity of search. If there were no purpose, than, there were no also problem.

During designing you can find yourselves if you are really interested in it. For example, become the wise accomplice of experimental activity on introduction of projects in practice. It is the most responsible work, though poorly paid. It depends on the fact, how much you love risk and whether you possess a share of adventurism. I speak in good sense of word. Sometimes romanticism helps to remain on the surface of the ocean of life and not to lose interest to it. Work together. Try to be adherents in common doing, instead of eternally battling the competitors.

But if you try to look at the husband as on a thing which mismatches your plans and dreams, than the further interaction is senseless. You prevent to develop not only him, but also you don’t develop by yourself. Envy, hatred will become your constant companions.

You have your own plans, and business of another is only the next problem? But his life does not belong to you. And the position of observer from above is not your destiny. Do not waste time vainly – devote your time to yourself. Then, probably, you will perceive the world in another way. Blessing is to you!