QUESTION Love is over now; there are only emptiness and frustration. Does it always come for a short time? How to live in this emptiness, what for? Where can strength for a new feeling be found, when there is no belief in a happy ending?

ANSWER OF TAYANA You cannot control love. It is an independent thing. Love comes when you are ready for such experience. It is Her Majesty Teacher. Accept it with joy even when it makes you suffer. It will only do you good in all ways. There is so little love on Earth. Don’t miss your chance.

Human history knows moments when the Divine manifests itself for us, who are praying Him for love, and He gives us love, It gives Itself to us. But as you don’t know what you are asking for, having received it, you get scared and you begin fighting love and throwing it away. Millenniums pass, but the history repeats, and people keep making the same mistakes. It’s true – love makes us suffer! And this is beautiful! It does not let us forget about who we are, about other people around – so like us and yet so different. We have a chance to explore ourselves from different angles: when someone loves and the other doesn’t. And someday you will understand that the person who does not love you at the moment – is you in your past. Try to remember: it’s possible that this has already happened before. You might only feel uncertain grief and pain, but even this will be enough to understand others, accept and forgive yourself. 

Love is like fire. When it is burning, it makes us melt, clears us like fire clears gold, illuminates and directs us, lighting up our way through darkness of the unknown. A person in love is a light. S/he lightens her/his inner world, explores it, and after that reflects the light into the world around, expressing her/himself and evoking a certain reaction in other people. 

Surrender to love and don’t think about benefits for yourself. Stingy people pay for everything (even for the life itself) 100 times more than others. But there will be good – it is in that wonderful chance to explore yourself, world and other people. And thanks to you, this world will get richer and wiser. Then you can call it love, development of your initial idea of yourself, and further on –understanding of love in its highest manifestation.

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