Real love

ANSWER OF TAYANA In order to find the real love, it is necessary to be real. Relying on the ideals and requirements concerning other people, you consider that only you are worthy something perfect. And it appears that all around is imperfect, artificial. How are you going to look for this « real love »? Probably, with a help of another’s prompting. But love cannot be given any definition. You will never succeed in describing the exact attributes of this phenomenon, or specifying the direction of search and coordinates of the necessary object. Each definition will be subjective. Something that is important and dear for one can be boring and poor for another.

If you love somebody, do not philosophize on this theme. While philosophizing, you lose an opportunity to receive a single chance from thousand. A single chance is you and your experience, and thousand is all what surrounds you, everything what was before you and will be after you. And all to it does not matter you. The Universe accepts all: both presence and absence.

Egoism speaks in you now. Love is always real the rest is imitation, a fake. Only in action, in love you can understand what it is. No map will help. It is your way, you put it for the first time, and nobody can go through it. This discovery will belong only to you; you can share with the world only the pleasure of your discovery. And it will be enough. And your heart will be the main compass in a way. Wish you happy journey and joyful finds.