Marriage and family

ANSWER OF TAYANA The family is a whole organization of human relations, it can gain different forms. The quality of forms will depend on the representation, on the constituent parts that will inhabit this country. That is why the problems are so different depending on their solutions.

The both parts bust bear responsibility for family relations. And as the family is a living being, its evolutional process is unavoidable.
As any form of organization, the family has own laws and rules of existence. They are different for men and women. Nowadays the reason for many troubles in family is woman. It is she who the result of family relations depend on.

Trying to find the answers for burning questions is her main purpose in achieving family welfare. One should learn family life. And if parents have not taught their daughter this, then later remarkable losses of time and forces are likely to occur.

In the family it’s every member is both a pupil and a teacher, because it is creative process. And the connection itself is the next step in training of treatment of itself and other people.

At the first stages of the development of such interaction there exists a large share of aggression, jealousy. It happens because everybody claims for power, monopoly, superiority. The next points are more difficult and at the same time more clear.

Men have more chances to learn Truth on this questions, though some of them do not consider it the main purpose in their life. Sometimes an
encounter with a wise woman “The swan princess” to lay on the bed of roses. But nothing in life is nothing. One must work hard and sincerely.

Attention, care, responsibility are to be learnt first.

And what about love?

It will come but only when you are ready to recognize and accept it.