How it is to marry?

ANSWER OF TAYANA How is to decide to live together? It is already a joint life independently of, whether you are in marriage, whether sleep at night in one bed, whether you together have the immovable property, and so on.

Probably, your loved has his plans for this account. Talk to him. This concrete conversation can appear the beginning or the end of your relations.

Who should show the initiative? Probably, you as you are disturbed with this question.

Your friend can test doubt, fear. It is quite probable, that he even did not think about it. So you should decide, what is necessary for you: family, marriage or romantic intimacy without any obligations.

All the same not this or that will satisfy you. But in order to lose, it is necessary to have something.