QUESTION I am constantly experiencing some kind of sorrow, I cannot figure out why – may be it is caused by the environment or something else.
I don’t know where I should be looking for an answer. Could you advise some reading or probably name an expert I could address?
ANSWER OF TAYANA You have a life-long and hard work ahead of you. Reading could be a short-term painkiller, but the roots of the anxiety will not go away. This treatment will only cause complications and troubles. So, you will hardly get this recipe from anyone. Any reasonable healer will not take responsibility by giving a one-time remedy knowing the inefficiency of this method. In addition, getting scared of challenges, …
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QUESTION I understand that only the person can help himself. I cannot find a way out. I constantly search for advice in books, in conversations with people. I convinced, that, being guided by love, it is possible to overcome all. But…
ANSWER OF TAYANA This “but” says that your egoism prevents from being more susceptible and sensitive to the world. Your low “I” do not trust another’s advice and does not want to accept them. The certain ignorance because of absence of experience in the work on mental images does not allow person to learn to think correctly. This period is full of reflection of another’s ideas which, in turn, require reduction to order. It is necessary to develop intelligenc…
More than a year back I asked Tayana Oniya a question.
The answer came in a week. In the answer there was something. Words were clear and simple in its own way, but there was some inaccessibility. Later, after a while I began to realize the volume of the answer. Everything that was familiar to me dissipated gradually, and there appeared a new vision of a situation.
You can’t say nequivocally: more likely in a year I lost the confidence in my absolute correctness and in belief, that I know everything. And I got more understanding of that there are people who has something what I, probably, shall receive someday (and maybe I shall never receive).
What did I personally get from the answer?
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QUESTION How is to find the competent instructor, and the main thing is where? In fact at development of super abilities it is very important to have a good instructor… Or is it possible to study independently and at the same time to protect oneself from undesirable consequences?
ANSWER OF TAYANA Good memory, skill to analyze, observe, compare, find differences that is presence of the abilities developed and brought to perfection, high intelligence help to make a systematic and successful construction of the form. Further it will serve you as the protection against undesirable consequences. You can work independently having made necessary aspiration and diligence.
Once a young man came…
Для того чтобы “ступить на свой личный путь”, нужно научиться ходить, ориентироваться в пространстве и познать себя.
Однажды ласточки, летя на юг, присели отдохнуть на дерево, под которым находился курятник. Ласточки начали обсуждать между собой, как хорошо на юге, как это здорово! И эти беседы привлекли одну курицу. Она долго слушала дивные рассказы ласточек и, когда те упорхнули, сама решила отправиться на юг. Она думала о том, что было бы здорово побывать там и что она не хуже других. Тогда она твердо решила лететь на юг. Все куры собрались. Организовалась огромная “группа поддержки”, каждая курица пыталась дать дельный совет, подбодрить, ведь такого в их истории еще не бывало…
QUESTION I search in the Network, about love… Probably, the love in true sense should be understood as aspiration to formation of connections. Freedom in the certain sense is harmonious addition to love. This approach allows not only to generate the base of the uniform decision, but also opens ways to understanding of the reality and optimization of invariance…
ANSWER OF TAYANA Do not try to limit love with frameworks of narrow conclusions. Often definitions which are given by people have nothing in common with it. You can devote all life to careful studying of this question in the theory, with the subsequent writing of great scientific works, but all this will be only an expanded artic…
QUESTION I know it’s trivial, but I am not sure how to begin… I was about to send you something a few times… but I was never able to find the right words. Words are getting somehow insignificant, inessential. Thank you for your understanding. Same goes to the initiation results. I would say my routine life hasn’t changed a lot, but it is completely my fault… But sometimes I have a feeling, more of a sensation (I don’t know how to call it otherwise) of something significant, consistent, something indifferent to everyday fuss.
I felt that especially h3ly on Monday, after that meeting with you…
I was just working and all of a sudden I realized I was ‘looking’ at things differently, as if fro…
QUESTION Thanks you. Your words bring rest and pleasure to me.
I have a question to you: how is to learn to love oneself? If since the childhood got used and learnt that to love myself is not necessary, even it is bad… If you simply do not know, how is it to love yourself?
ANSWER OF TAYANA Yes, it is not simple to love itself. People around always say: « What are you doing? Look, how do you look like! You are not like people! »… And such censures receive the child in unlimited quantity since the early childhood. Parents think that other people always have something better, that’s why they want to catch up with all and to succeed. Frequent the child becomes the tool in this race. Someti…
В разные периоды нашей жизни рано или поздно такой вопрос посещает каждого из нас. Но ответить на него получится лишь практическим путем. Можно неоднократно создавать разнообразные картины на песке и строить целые города из него на берегу моря, но каждый раз набегающая волна будет разрушать возведенные иллюзии и уносить за собой все попытки создания каких-то конкретных определений и установок. Так и жизнь: она подобна набегающей на берег волне с ее приливами и отливами. Наш ум – это берег, требующий конкретных определений и концепций. А волны – наше сознание. И сознание выполняет свою работу. Очищает наш ум от ненужных вещей, будь то простое любопытство из-за невежества или великие мысли …
Путь к постижению любви тернист. Но, чтобы достигнуть вершины этой чудесной горы, необходимо исследовать объект с разных его сторон. А уже в процессе движения, погружения в природу вопроса происходит развитие и изменение вашего отношения к нему. Например, о своем опыте Н. Гумилев пишет так:
Я не прожил, я протомился
Половину жизни земной,
И, Господь, вот Ты мне явился
Невозможной такой мечтой.
Вижу свет на горе Фаворе
И безумно тоскую я,
Что взлюбил и сушу и море,
Весь дремучий сон бытия;
Что моя молодая сила
Не смирилась перед Твоей,
Что так больно сердце томила
Красота Твоих дочерей.
Но любовь разве цветик алый,
Чтобы ей лишь мгновенье жить,
Но любовь разве пламен…