QUESTION I understand that only the person can help himself. I cannot find a way out. I constantly search for advice in books, in conversations with people. I convinced, that, being guided by love, it is possible to overcome all. But…

ANSWER OF TAYANA This “but” says that your egoism prevents from being more susceptible and sensitive to the world. Your low “I” do not trust another’s advice and does not want to accept them. The certain ignorance because of absence of experience in the work on mental images does not allow person to learn to think correctly. This period is full of reflection of another’s ideas which, in turn, require reduction to order. It is necessary to develop intelligence, a part of your soul.

One of effective means is the reference to the sacred books saying about serious questions of human existence and about the Divine. These sources will help you to find a pacification and patience in difficult minutes of tests. The patience is necessary to provide yourself with time for correct recognition of the reality in which you are, and on the basis of it understand an essence of mercy to yourself and objects surrounding you.

As a result of careful internal work there should appear the vision and understanding of the nature of your environment and the level of its development of the whole and each representative. Each of us can give advice, but only concerning the outlook, the way of life, ability to communicate. Study to find the necessary assistants.

In Russia now the huge quantity of every possible book is published. But here there is a trouble: the reader’s culture and demand for the literature are insignificant. While choosing the books rely on your intuition. But first at the level of idea it is necessary to formulate the question exciting you precisely and particularly. Depending on your attentiveness and vigilance you will receive the answer if, certainly, you really need it.

It is necessary to help yourself, but you should study how to do it. Learn to react creatively on changes in your environment. Develop your flexibility. Your flexibility is the readiness to release stagnant experiences, attachment to stability and property. This, in turn, will allow you to perceive occurring events correctly and learn life experience qualitatively, to restore missing forces. Excessive resistance to the changes occurring to you leads to the accelerated process of ageing of all organisms, to fast deterioration. Do not become attached to concrete result. Attachment to any object gives rise to fear to lose the control, to lose an opportunity to get the approval of other people.

The delay of fear leads to occurrence of stress. The stress created by you accelerates physiological processes of ageing and consequently, strengthens sluggishness and leads to immovability. The consequences of your affairs are not always under your control.

It is necessary to have super abilities in order to see the whole picture. Possessing it, you could work with the Law of Causality. But while you do not have it, study to do steps in unknown. It is the area of our opportunities. Study to release the past whatever sweet it was. The past can have continuation if you want it, but in this case it will accept the new and healthy form according to requirements of the present. It is possible only owing to your flexibility.

The skill to forgive yourself and others is one of conditions of flexibility and absence of inertness. Release your heart from feeling of insult, animosity, regret, hatred and aspiration to revenge. All this is a poison, and it destroys everything. Try to define, what lesson you should receive as a result of release of such conditions. Probably, the understanding of the nature of your hatred and animosities will allow you to approach the decision of the problem of love.

The love demands its display, independently of the fact with whom it is connected. Whether you listen to the fellow traveler, whether help the old person or look after an animal, here there is no choice. Selectivity says that you do not have enough energy of love. Love penetrates all life of this planet. Exchange this energy with other people. There will be an opportunity to receive the similar gift.

21 July 2006, Просмотров: 46