Tag: Любовь (Страница 3 из 5)
QUESTION How is to find the real love? Help me!!!
ANSWER OF TAYANA In order to find the real love, it is necessary to be real. Relying on the ideals and requirements concerning other people, you consider that only you are worthy something perfect. And it appears that all around is imperfect, artificial. How are you going to look for this « real love »? Probably, with a help of another’s prompting. But love cannot be given any definition. You will never succeed in describing the exact attributes of this phenomenon, or specifying the direction of search and coordinates of the necessary object. Each definition will be subjective. Something that is important and dear for one can be boring and p…
QUESTION Love is over now; there are only emptiness and frustration. Does it always come for a short time? How to live in this emptiness, what for? Where can strength for a new feeling be found, when there is no belief in a happy ending?
ANSWER OF TAYANA You cannot control love. It is an independent thing. Love comes when you are ready for such experience. It is Her Majesty Teacher. Accept it with joy even when it makes you suffer. It will only do you good in all ways. There is so little love on Earth. Don’t miss your chance.
Human history knows moments when the Divine manifests itself for us, who are praying Him for love, and He gives us love, It gives Itself to us. But as you don’t…
QUESTION How to be yourself?
ANSWER OF TAYANA Everything is not so easy. What is simple for one, is stumbling-block for another.
Always start with what you really feel.
Neither deceive yourself. You are to solve the conflict who you are and what kind of a person you should be.
The main thing what you really are. Feel consciousness as your own. To understand yourself one needs seclusion. Dive deep in the pain of solitariness and uselessness. The duration of seclusion is always individual. Do not confuse seclusion with loneless as the sense of life.
Learn to see the Truth.
Only being in a passive, but vigilant state one may discover himself.Study and learn all the charac…
QUESTION Such a feeling as if I have stopped in time and I do not move; as if all life passes by, there is no development. I think: WHY? And I answer: well let it be! Life is fine, I love and am loved! What else in a life is necessary! There is no self-expression, pleasure! I feel uncertainty in myself! After I have passed to another post, I turned to a grey melancholy mouse! I try to keep love in my soul. I concentrate on love. I always want to reunite and become single whole with it. Just to be dissolved in the nature and fly to the sky! How to keep harmony inside? What to do, to not relax? How to be always self-assured? How to help people?
ANSWER OF TAYANA You have too many desires. Ques…
Страх – это патологическое чувство. Жизнь человечества на планете всегда сопровождалась его присутствием. Природа страха коренится в незнании, в опасении узнать что-то особенное и не понять этого. Страх возникает перед неизвестностью. С рождением появляется страх перед тайной жизни. Не зная ее, ребенок боится жить, дышать, а научившись немного этому, боится потерять находку. Появляется страх смерти. Изучать и исследовать природу страха свойственно истинно религиозным искателям. Для обычных людей это запретная тема. Страх перед сексом – это тоже страх смерти. В сексе вы входите в утонченный вид смерти. Исчезает ваша индивидуальность, ваше эго, исчезает время. И, несмотря на то что я говорю…
QUESTION My loved man sees in me only close friend and suggests making love for health, but I do not know, whether it is good to use his kindness and I can not refuse his offer it is above my forces. Maybe, it is necessary to make effort and to not meet him? Or there is nothing in it , what contradicts ethics of attitudes?
ANSWER OF TAYANA Friendship is a great force. It includes both love, and mercy, and trust.
If the loved person can stop loving, betray, the real friend always remains with you, and obstacles and distance are not a hindrance for him. They are especially sensitive people. Their abilities are empathy, loving kindness.
Friendship is the phenomenon of maturit…
QUESTION I do not know what to do: to divorce from wife or not? Last time this question does not allow me to sleep. I don’t like her. Parents chose her. It frequent happens in such a way. The girl I liked, they did not accept. They thought that they are descendants of prince Welsh (I speak figuratively). And here I am at the crossroads. I do not like her, but I feel sorry for her. I fork; I do not know what to do. I do not want to be the victim. And I have problems with work, and I search and I search for new work. I put the questionnaire here and there, but nobody answers. Help me, please. Tell me what to do?
ANSWER OF TAYANA You want new experiences and problems than make divorce. At leas…
QUESTION My lover left me for another woman. I know my sorrows will dissolve. It was destined to happen for me to understand something. But I can’t retire my hard Lurden. I get such a feeling of this permanent presence in my home. He is there any way to get rid of his former presence?
ANSWER OF TAYANA It is quite a hard experience for you. It is felt hard too. But don’t remonstrate try to accept it. What really means is you.
Often our mind can aggravate our feelings. Change the state, let some fresh wind come in your mopish mood. Do not be afraid – open your eyes. Inspire your stamina. Wind will bring away your sorrows – you will see a new radiance. You will find a way from the maze, w…
My dear friend, I tell you truly: there are miracles on New Year. Someone believes and adheres to authorities. Who are these authorities? Moscow, St.-Petersburg, capital of Siberia – Novosibirsk and some other representatives. So it is not enough of them for the usual person.
But it happens that somebody slightly opens a veil behind which there is Truth. Owing to this somebody receives dedication. He does not guess an event; he is overcome with anger, disappointment, loss of interest to object. ” And the small chest opened simply “. But what is in the small chest? It is not that authority which would correspond to the general invented standard where the main principles of action are servi…
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