Pleasure

QUESTION Such a feeling as if I have stopped in time and I do not move; as if all life passes by, there is no development. I think: WHY? And I answer: well let it be! Life is fine, I love and am loved! What else in a life is necessary! There is no self-expression, pleasure! I feel uncertainty in myself! After I have passed to another post, I turned to a grey melancholy mouse! I try to keep love in my soul. I concentrate on love. I always want to reunite and become single whole with it. Just to be dissolved in the nature and fly to the sky! How to keep harmony inside? What to do, to not relax? How to be always self-assured? How to help people?

Your magic transformation into the grey melancholy mouse is natural. This condition makes you suffer. But suffering conducts to updating. It is necessary in your life.

Unfortunately, all your believes, attempts to concentrate on love are in vain. In this case it will not help, because there is nothing in a reality. These are derivatives of your mind which in the activity leans on the past, on different ideas, judgments, on some stream of the information received before.

Being excessively busy by yourself it prevents you from seeing the main reason. You love only yourselves. You do not love people.

To keep harmony inside, it is necessary to have it. When at the slightest failure, at any remark in your address you run into anger you give vent to rage and irritability or, on the contrary, you have depression and discontent , it means, that there was no harmony. You know about it only at the level of information, but you did not reach the understanding of this condition.

The next question. What should be done in order not to relax? The relaxation is a high achievement in the field of consciousness. It is accessible not for all. Timeliness will be the correct decision of this question. The human plan can reach such pressure, that it is likely there will be a question how to relax. It does not threaten you yet, because your mind creates a pressure when you can’t understand what you ask and what you wish to hear. You are like a small child who asks a lot of interesting and important questions, but he does not listen to explanations, as he can’t understand – it is the time. But the child is weakened, he is natural. And your period of asking is overextended. Realize the heat of your pressure. The relaxation in your case is preceded by concentration. Both to concentrate and simultaneously to be dissolved in yourself is impossible. Concentration provides presence of an ego. Work at the question most important for you.

How to be always self-assured? The confidence is the centering of energy in a certain point. But people usually associate confidence with obstinacy and dullness, limitation of perception. It is preoccupation of yourself. The confidence is a h3 uncertainty, the desire that others noticed that unreal confidence. The opportunity to receive the opinion of people with the help of pressure. The true confidence is possible while you experience the statement « I am » when you realize yourself. Then comes the research of the question « Who am I? ».

You ask: «How can I help people?» Where do you want to help them? Whether they ask you about help? People are different. But the fact that it disturbs you is a good thing. If you want to help you should offer your help. Only do not forget to ask the permition of this person to give him your help. Your help should be feasible for you. Altruism of a person leans on unselfishness.

So let your desires do not go away with your doings.