Tag: Любовь это

With love and about love

I am 41. I didn’t have love in my life. I did not suffer this illness. But after communicating with you I understood, that in my life there were only dreams. I still continue to dream. Probably, I live by these, and I feel quiet. Thank you very much that you are. 

You often say, that love is an illness, and are pleased or regret because of the security from it. I can not agree with it. Illness represents wrong movement of energy. It leads to its overabundance or lack. This happens, when the person breaks the display of his true nature, tries to become the person whom he is not. Problems can appear because of the fact that the environment where he appeared, mismatches his essence. Adaptati…

Magic of love

QUESTION In perfect, in my opinion, nothing should seize mind and soul of the person: nevertheless the attachment is dangerous thing. And what is about love? Or how should I name what I feel? If each section of my body wants to go to him, there is no day without wearsome feelings of my heart? Sometimes I want just escape from him. I am really afraid. Besides my attitude to him is too serious, and it is also not very good. As if I encroach on him though I understand, that it is impossible. I am afraid of this feeling. Because I feel so good with him, as with nobody else. And if he disappears from my life… Certainly, I shall accept it. But I do not want to accept it for the second time. I kn…

Real love

QUESTION How is to find the real love? Help me!!!
ANSWER OF TAYANA In order to find the real love, it is necessary to be real. Relying on the ideals and requirements concerning other people, you consider that only you are worthy something perfect. And it appears that all around is imperfect, artificial. How are you going to look for this « real love »? Probably, with a help of another’s prompting. But love cannot be given any definition. You will never succeed in describing the exact attributes of this phenomenon, or specifying the direction of search and coordinates of the necessary object. Each definition will be subjective. Something that is important and dear for one can be boring and p…

Pleasure

QUESTION Such a feeling as if I have stopped in time and I do not move; as if all life passes by, there is no development. I think: WHY? And I answer: well let it be! Life is fine, I love and am loved! What else in a life is necessary! There is no self-expression, pleasure! I feel uncertainty in myself! After I have passed to another post, I turned to a grey melancholy mouse! I try to keep love in my soul. I concentrate on love. I always want to reunite and become single whole with it. Just to be dissolved in the nature and fly to the sky! How to keep harmony inside? What to do, to not relax? How to be always self-assured? How to help people?
ANSWER OF TAYANA You have too many desires. Ques…

Life’s Purpose

QUESTION Is love our life’s purpose?
ANSWER OF TAYANA Your question is wrong. And wrong questions can get only incorrect answers. Therefore, to answer a wrong question means to be involved in a lie.
The person who is asking the question has demonstrated that s/he lacks consciousness, and therefore – responsibility for her/his actions. No responsibility – no person to ask the question.
‘We’, ‘us’, and other wording of this kind is wrong from the beginning. Who are we talking about? Me or you?
It often happens so: when you try to help yourself, you begin interfering with other people’s lives. It flatters your ego.
There are notions of ‘crowd’ and ‘personality’ in any society. Are you aski…