Раздел: Values (Страница 2 из 3)
Путь к постижению любви тернист. Но, чтобы достигнуть вершины этой чудесной горы, необходимо исследовать объект с разных его сторон. А уже в процессе движения, погружения в природу вопроса происходит развитие и изменение вашего отношения к нему. Например, о своем опыте Н. Гумилев пишет так:
Я не прожил, я протомился
Половину жизни земной,
И, Господь, вот Ты мне явился
Невозможной такой мечтой.
Вижу свет на горе Фаворе
И безумно тоскую я,
Что взлюбил и сушу и море,
Весь дремучий сон бытия;
Что моя молодая сила
Не смирилась перед Твоей,
Что так больно сердце томила
Красота Твоих дочерей.
Но любовь разве цветик алый,
Чтобы ей лишь мгновенье жить,
Но любовь разве пламен…
QUESTION Whether it is possible to give the person the idea, that it is necessary for him to grow fond of you?
ANSWER OF TAYANA It is an obsession to allow someone to feel the necessity to grow fond of you. You cannot know, what another person wants what is more important for him, – in fact you even cannot tell such information about yourselves. And, aspiring to take a predominating position, try to emphasize your importance and to increase the degree of your ego. Here there is your aspiration to become famous in the world of people. The person aspires to glory, using any improvised material: money, attention of people and authority above them. Influence on another’s choice is one of opport…
QUESTION How is to find the real love? Help me!!!
ANSWER OF TAYANA In order to find the real love, it is necessary to be real. Relying on the ideals and requirements concerning other people, you consider that only you are worthy something perfect. And it appears that all around is imperfect, artificial. How are you going to look for this « real love »? Probably, with a help of another’s prompting. But love cannot be given any definition. You will never succeed in describing the exact attributes of this phenomenon, or specifying the direction of search and coordinates of the necessary object. Each definition will be subjective. Something that is important and dear for one can be boring and p…
QUESTION Whether it is necessary to tell people the truth on a question asked by them if the answer will not be pleasant? How is it better to do, not having offended them?
ANSWER OF TAYANA The world of people possesses such quality, as arrogance. Sometimes it entails excessive self-confidence as a result of dullness and ignorance. For this reason the person prefers to hear what is more pleasant what cannot deliver special efforts and problems. The desire to live in illusion frequently is more preferable than the truth. Therefore more often the truth is persecuted by the initiators of the created situation, it is objectionable. The nature of insult is hidden in the one who dares to take offe…
У вас слишком много желаний. Вопросы, которые заданы, – порождение, следствие этих грез по своей оригинальности и неповторимости. Вам хочется признания, и чем чаще вы его получаете, тем больше проявляет себя привыкание к положительным эмоциональным откликам окружающих.
Такая форма взаимодействия вам приятна, вы попадаете в ловушку удовольствия. В дальнейшем недостаток такой подпитки заставляет ваш ум активизировать память, искать оправдания отсутствию радости, ссылаясь на неуверенность в себе. Человек вы неглупый, поэтому правильно поймете то, о чем я веду с вами беседу. Утешать и льстить не в моих правилах, так как знаю, что это силы вам не придаст.
Ваше волшебное превр…
QUESTION Such a feeling as if I have stopped in time and I do not move; as if all life passes by, there is no development. I think: WHY? And I answer: well let it be! Life is fine, I love and am loved! What else in a life is necessary! There is no self-expression, pleasure! I feel uncertainty in myself! After I have passed to another post, I turned to a grey melancholy mouse! I try to keep love in my soul. I concentrate on love. I always want to reunite and become single whole with it. Just to be dissolved in the nature and fly to the sky! How to keep harmony inside? What to do, to not relax? How to be always self-assured? How to help people?
ANSWER OF TAYANA You have too many desires. Ques…
QUESTION What purpose of my coming to this world?
ANSWER OF TAYANA What purpose of wind, clouds, the sky and the ground? None. Divine does not raise any purpose. He simply is. His creative aspect is presented in your arrival also. You are His eyes, ears, hands. Through you He shows himself as possible. The creation is both creation, and preservation, and destruction. This trinity is display of harmony in action. You are His action: suffering, pain, tears, laughter and pleasure.
But people think more about themselves. You can always hear: « I. I am the best, the cleverest. And that, another… » And if you want to learn the purpose learn yourself, learn your weaknesses and begin to work…
QUESTION What means disbelief?
ANSWER OF TAYANA Belief is a force. The belief can shift mountains and execute most hidden desires. It makes wonders. Belief is the property of mind. If you know, that the subject of your belief exists, the belief will become h3. It is not necessary to identify belief with religion.
My grandmother’s name was Vera (Belief). She was a truly courageous, patient, wise person. She believed in herself, in her forces and completely relied on them. During the difficult vital moments she was able to stand up, bring up children, having given them care and support, that is especially necessary for human children. And she left this world adequately: in full sensiblen…
QUESTION I feel, that past does not allow me to move forward. It presses on a breast like a heavy stone, it is difficult to make a breath and live further, not look back. I want to realize myself in this life very much. But I do not find forces to change anything. Tell me how to learn to live in peace with myself and people around. How to find forces in myself, to dump fetters of the past? I am afraid not to find the place in this life. Please, help with advice. Thanks.
ANSWER OF TAYANA You ask questions, and it seems to you, that it doesn’t have neither the end and nor edges. But all is much easier. The question is always one, and all rest is particulars as the life of everyone is no…
QUESTION What is to do? My daughter wants money very much. It’s her biggest desire. She has an allergy for study and work.
ANSWER OF TAYANA Money is one of forms of desire. It is an integrated form. There are a huge number of different fine pleasures in it. Their realization is an opportunity of narcissism, and in the further is the authority over the people. It is not a butterfly, but only a gluttonous caterpillar.
What butterfly (day time or night, and maybe – a bat) becomes “caterpillar”, depends on it will eat. What is its “daily bread”? Probably, it is seduced with attention of people.
Empathy is not learned yet by it. You focused the child on struggle for a place under the…