QUESTION I feel, that past does not allow me to move forward. It presses on a breast like a heavy stone, it is difficult to make a breath and live further, not look back. I want to realize myself in this life very much. But I do not find forces to change anything. Tell me how to learn to live in peace with myself and people around. How to find forces in myself, to dump fetters of the past? I am afraid not to find the place in this life. Please, help with advice. Thanks.

ANSWER OF TAYANA You ask questions, and it seems to you, that it doesn’t have neither the end and nor edges. But all is much easier. The question is always one, and all rest is particulars as the life of everyone is not stagnant, and it changes. The constancy of Life is in its variability. The reality varies, the answer varies too. There is only the main question.

It often happens because, the person wishes only, and does not want to operate. Advice remains advice. Energy is spent, but it has not received the necessary direction. It dissipates.

All has functions and predestination. If you, having taken advantage of momentary weakness, address to the certain forces for help and these forces respond, in this case the responsibility is put on both sides. It is moral and ethical feature of realization of the law of balance.

The fact that past does not allow you to move forward (« … It is difficultly to make a breath and to live further, not looking back. I want to realize myself in this life very much. But I do not find forces … »), is not the justification. Nobody, except for you, will solve this problem.

« Fetters of the past » are the part of your life. Collect this past in a single whole, having devoted to it some time in solitude. Begin the revision of your life from the present back in the past. Choose the brightest moments. Realize them at the level of understanding. Accept everything, thank existence for that experience which you received, leave arrogance and vanity, having shown humility and trust sincerely. Ask about clearing from the past. It will be your meditation coming into a pray.

Release the past; do not come back to it. It does not belong to you. You are not the past, not the present, not the future. You are a part of immense eternity of Life. Accept life as it is, do not try to scold or praise it. Live and breathe – otherwise it is impossible. Breath is a movement. Movement is a life.

Any movement, even if it is breath is labor. If is destined to you to overcome difficulties, you should make it.

Work without expecting the result. And when you will enter the meditative condition, the result will come soon. When there is no violence over a situation, all occurs naturally – as it is necessary for God.

«God is h3 to enrich you with any good thing that you were always rich for any kind doings ». I wish you patience to you, energy of constancy, self-control.

09 January 2005, Просмотров: 48