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Sex. Feeling of fault

QUESTION Tayana, help me, please! I do not know how to begin… I with my husband have been living for 15 years. We lived friendly and cheerfully. We worked together, brought up children together. We were almost as a single whole. And now a strange period began which is expressed with the fact that I lost interest to my husband as the sexual partner. In former years it was not also at the first place for me, it was just as a part of our joint life. And now I do it hardly. The most thing, that I hurt close person because he loves me. But sexual life is that area where to force yourself to do something is practically impossible. The most important is that in other spheres of our life – work, e…

To do sex?

QUESTION My loved man sees in me only close friend and suggests making love for health, but I do not know, whether it is good to use his kindness and I can not refuse his offer it is above my forces. Maybe, it is necessary to make effort and to not meet him? Or there is nothing in it , what contradicts ethics of attitudes?

ANSWER OF TAYANA Friendship is a great force. It includes both love, and mercy, and trust.

If the loved person can stop loving, betray, the real friend always remains with you, and obstacles and distance are not a hindrance for him. They are especially sensitive people. Their abilities are empathy, loving kindness.

Friendship is the phenomenon of maturit…

Treasons of the husband

QUESTION Tell me please, what should I start with, if my soul is not quiet because of my husband’s infidelity. I am on the point of weeping and I do not know how to stop it. I began read esoteric literature, but everything is chaotic, I don’t know how to approach it. I am feeling breaches in my soul, destruction, devastation. I want to achieve balance, not to grow buffer, make myself forgive him, to get rid of offence. But how can I live without his love?
ANSWER OF TAYANA Your question is the result of deep emotional and feeling experience. Esoteric literature can’t help you in this case because the information you get has a lot of dimensions and systems. Your consciousness is not ready to …

Life’s Purpose

QUESTION Is love our life’s purpose?
ANSWER OF TAYANA Your question is wrong. And wrong questions can get only incorrect answers. Therefore, to answer a wrong question means to be involved in a lie.
The person who is asking the question has demonstrated that s/he lacks consciousness, and therefore – responsibility for her/his actions. No responsibility – no person to ask the question.
‘We’, ‘us’, and other wording of this kind is wrong from the beginning. Who are we talking about? Me or you?
It often happens so: when you try to help yourself, you begin interfering with other people’s lives. It flatters your ego.
There are notions of ‘crowd’ and ‘personality’ in any society. Are you aski…