QUESTION How much a 20-year-girl behave herself not to get lost and not to make silly mistakes?

ANSWER OF TAYANA Twenty years… It is a wonderful time! There is no part. Only the future is before you.
Why is this question worrying you? What are you afraid of? If it is a fear for other people’s thinking of you, then it is a mistake. Who are you listening to? Yourself or other’s advice?
Since the earliest childhood adults have tried to suggest a child the feeling of guilt for his extraordinary boldness, nawety and ingeniousness.
If you sit and ponder over what to do and how to be right and what not to do, all your “affair” is doomed to failure. Good and bad have been both laid into man since childhood, it is his nature. The one cannot exist without the other because these are the two sides of the same medal.

Be yourself! It is the easiest and difficult thing in life. It is easy because for “ignoramuses” it sounds “ignorant”. It is difficult, because there must be giant work at self-determination. Who are you? Are you a limitless ocean or the water in a glass?

Learn to find joy in life, not with your mind, but with all your being. Accept your environment with each cell of your body. Breathe in every moment of your existence… Now there are a lot of temptations around you. Somebody is trying to attract you by beautiful and rich clothes, somebody else – by flatter. Of course, you will not pass by it. Fame, power, richness emerge on the way of man who has come into this world. You are not an exception.

Youth is given to create. It is allowed to it. You should not be afraid of mistakes. Life is a platform for experiments.

… “not to get lost and not to make silly mistakes” – what do you mean by that? To sell with profit, to buy, to get? Then everything is moving around cold calculations… It is a blind heart that would not listen to common sense.

Don’t submit to stormy emotions. Under control they turn into feelings.

Youth is h3 both in its creating power and in destruction. Be attentive learning your inner world. This is what you have come here with, it is your richness. Wread of mistakes nourishes fear that paralyses your actions. There are no mistakes. There are delays on the way.

Youth “is permitted everything, but not everything is useful, everything is permitted, but nothing must possess it”. The notion of purity consists in it.

As for mistakes… Nobody is insured against them. Both saints and sinners make mistakes and sometimes it is difficult to decide where good finishes and will begin.

31 August 2004, Просмотров: 56