To do sex?

ANSWER OF TAYANA Friendship is a great force. It includes both love, and mercy, and trust.

If the loved person can stop loving, betray, the real friend always remains with you, and obstacles and distance are not a hindrance for him. They are especially sensitive people. Their abilities are empathy, loving kindness.

Friendship is the phenomenon of maturity, self-sufficiency. Here there is no heat of passions burning all with fire. It is realized force. More likely it reminds a flame of a candle, fire in a fireplace. It gives the necessary quantity of light and heat: as much, as it is required for life. There, where there is no famine and avidity, there is gratuitous giving. Life is just as a stream of the river on the plain. The river feeds all and accepts all without estimation.

You are different, and your purposes are separated. Sex for health is a form of relations which is convenient for him. You are disturbed, ostensibly, with “ethics of ladies’ forces “. There is no love between you and especially friendship which I am talking about. You should understand what you want from this communication. You play with one another. And this game is only a deceit. Each of you achieves some benefit for himself; you use cunning, hiding the main objective. You would like to legalize relations. He doesn’t want it. Probably, he has some doubt or he looks for a better bargain in the further. And now you pay: somebody pays off with a body; somebody pays off with time and attention. 

It is a policy. And for politicians such mutual relations are normally and naturally; a better one is not given. But any case can be a good lesson and it is an experience of communication. Even the most insignificant steps approach us to understanding of laws of the universe. Only one has a wide and florid road, and others – a narrow and direct track.

Everyone chooses for himself
The woman, religion, road.
Whether to serve to devil or to prophet?
Everyone chooses for himself.