QUESTION Hello! I would like to know your opinion on the following situation. I seem to have no inner contradictions: I love my wife and I easily tolerate other people’s flaws as I know I have ones myself. But sometimes a great degree of hate comes out of a feeling of harmony to a specific person if s/he doesn’t understand me or treats me wrong. I am all outrage itself. It bothers me really much, as I wasn’t like this before, and I know I am not it now, and I don’t want to be like this. Besides, after I had met my lovely wife, she started being sick more often and recovers from illness more slowly… It all bothers me so much.
ANSWER OF TAYANA You spend lots of your energy on resistance. The …