QUESTION What is to do? My daughter wants money very much. It’s her biggest desire. She has an allergy for study and work.

ANSWER OF TAYANA Money is one of forms of desire. It is an integrated form. There are a huge number of different fine pleasures in it. Their realization is an opportunity of narcissism, and in the further is the authority over the people. It is not a butterfly, but only a gluttonous caterpillar.

What butterfly (day time or night, and maybe – a bat) becomes “caterpillar”, depends on it will eat. What is its “daily bread”? Probably, it is seduced with attention of people.

Empathy is not learned yet by it. You focused the child on struggle for a place under the sun. So she struggles as she can. But she is not you. Her defeats are her experiences very much. They are others. And you should not interfere in these processes with the edifications, threats and recommendations. Your life is full of your own mistakes; time given to you on correction is limited. Do not be prodigal!

Let your life be a good example for the girl. Give advice when it is asked: they should not be categorical and persuasive. Do not stir her. Be methodical. The methodical person is a mature person. You are still the baby in social sphere and you are also trying to create the illusion of authority in this world.

02 September 2004, Просмотров: 83