Hello, Tayana!
Thank you for the answer and for parables. 3 months passed from the moment of reception of the letter, and something stirs to answer, though mentally I communicate with you every day. And may be, these are problems ” with head “?
It is difficult to formulate any basic, main question, in fact mind constantly touches different themes (at work about work, at home about house, about family attitudes, etc.), but precisely I know that it is necessary to write. And just only to say thanks. In fact above these thoughts there is one main idea – that it is all vanity and it is only important to realize yourself, your ideas, words, actions.
Thank you, Tayana, wish you happiness and lo…
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Hi, my dear friend Dmitriy!
From the date of your anniversary it has not passed a month, and the main words have the right to be stated just now though they were born during my stay in Delhi. It often happens that the person is not ready to perception and understanding of something very important for him in life. It does not have a shred of human time to pass a side separating the mature person from dozing soul.
What is the most dangerous for human essence? To remain in ignorance and to continue to feed the ignorance. This is one of the main harms pursuing mankind more than one millennium. And it is more complex for overcoming, rather than hatred (anger) and thirst (envy). You understa…
QUESTION Hello Tayana!
Since the time I have discovered this website I keep coming back here every day trying to find answers to my questions. I have been also sending you confessions. I am in a search state. I am writing to you again hoping you’ll be able to see what I might be missing.
My problem is that I lack energy. I might be willing to create a lot in the real world, but in fact I only do a part of what I planned. I get tired, frustrated, and finally – lose my strength. I remember it this way from my early childhood. I was tired in kindergarten, and in school, and I didn’t play with other children after my classes, but needed rest.
I lose a lot of energy while communica…
I am 41. I didn’t have love in my life. I did not suffer this illness. But after communicating with you I understood, that in my life there were only dreams. I still continue to dream. Probably, I live by these, and I feel quiet. Thank you very much that you are.
You often say, that love is an illness, and are pleased or regret because of the security from it. I can not agree with it. Illness represents wrong movement of energy. It leads to its overabundance or lack. This happens, when the person breaks the display of his true nature, tries to become the person whom he is not. Problems can appear because of the fact that the environment where he appeared, mismatches his essence. Adaptati…
QUESTION I have a big problem. I don’t know how to communicate with men: I’m always tight; I can’t look straight in their eyes. I don’t even notice them! Could you please help me? May this go away after an appropriate meditation?
ANSWER OF TAYANA Your question is a question asked by a lonely person. It contains the major problem of humanity as a whole. A man and a woman are like two opposite worlds, exploring each other with interest during all times, but failing to solve the mystery. Everybody’s heart seeks communication. And by asking for help, you’re doing right. The problem is not in your vision. You are afraid of yourself, your hidden thoughts and desires, and possible actions. A man f…
Having visited your site, I understood that there is not necessary to regret myself. Recently my loved person betrayed me. He suffered for a long time, but he did not want to tell to me about it. I am very proud girl and I thought, that I shall never forgive his betray, but nevertheless I forgave him. I do not understand how I could do it. Probably, I love him very much. Thanks that there is your site, it really helps to understand, that life – is a difficult thing, but you should go through it with HIGHLY LIFTED HEAD!
I already spoke about the magic properties of skill to forgive. It is not in our forces to forgive actions and acts of other person. That another, as well as you is the wh…
QUESTION I am constantly experiencing some kind of sorrow, I cannot figure out why – may be it is caused by the environment or something else.
I don’t know where I should be looking for an answer. Could you advise some reading or probably name an expert I could address?
ANSWER OF TAYANA You have a life-long and hard work ahead of you. Reading could be a short-term painkiller, but the roots of the anxiety will not go away. This treatment will only cause complications and troubles. So, you will hardly get this recipe from anyone. Any reasonable healer will not take responsibility by giving a one-time remedy knowing the inefficiency of this method. In addition, getting scared of challenges, …
More than a year back I asked Tayana Oniya a question.
The answer came in a week. In the answer there was something. Words were clear and simple in its own way, but there was some inaccessibility. Later, after a while I began to realize the volume of the answer. Everything that was familiar to me dissipated gradually, and there appeared a new vision of a situation.
You can’t say nequivocally: more likely in a year I lost the confidence in my absolute correctness and in belief, that I know everything. And I got more understanding of that there are people who has something what I, probably, shall receive someday (and maybe I shall never receive).
What did I personally get from the answer?
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QUESTION I know it’s trivial, but I am not sure how to begin… I was about to send you something a few times… but I was never able to find the right words. Words are getting somehow insignificant, inessential. Thank you for your understanding. Same goes to the initiation results. I would say my routine life hasn’t changed a lot, but it is completely my fault… But sometimes I have a feeling, more of a sensation (I don’t know how to call it otherwise) of something significant, consistent, something indifferent to everyday fuss.
I felt that especially h3ly on Monday, after that meeting with you…
I was just working and all of a sudden I realized I was ‘looking’ at things differently, as if fro…
QUESTION Thanks you. Your words bring rest and pleasure to me.
I have a question to you: how is to learn to love oneself? If since the childhood got used and learnt that to love myself is not necessary, even it is bad… If you simply do not know, how is it to love yourself?
ANSWER OF TAYANA Yes, it is not simple to love itself. People around always say: « What are you doing? Look, how do you look like! You are not like people! »… And such censures receive the child in unlimited quantity since the early childhood. Parents think that other people always have something better, that’s why they want to catch up with all and to succeed. Frequent the child becomes the tool in this race. Someti…